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A man can feel a certain level of attraction for you that will have him act loving, but is only as deep as him knowing that he wants to get physical with you. It’s another kind of attraction altogether for a man to want a long-term relationship with you.
Do you know what it is that a woman can do that makes the difference? Do you know how to trigger the kind of attraction that gets a man to naturally open up, share himself and think about the future with you?
I’m not talking about purely physical attraction, or the kind that makes a man want to BE physical with you. You know, like the kind of "attraction" that makes a man want just a casual fling... or a Friends With Benefits situation only.
No, I’m talking about the kind of Intellectual and Emotional Attraction that makes a man want to be around you... and want to have you in his life for the long-term.
I’m talking about the kind of attraction that makes him think about you all the time. The kind that makes his heart leap whenever he remembers the times he spent with you. It’s completely possible to do or say certain things that will turn on that magic switch inside a man’s mind that will make him sit up and take notice. That will make him emotionally attracted to you.
At the same time, there are ways to KILL any chance of that kind of attraction...and these are common mistakes that many women carelessly make (especially when they are really INTO a guy).
"Duh."
Do you know what it is that a woman can do that makes the difference? Do you know how to trigger the kind of attraction that gets a man to naturally open up, share himself and think about the future with you?
I’m not talking about purely physical attraction, or the kind that makes a man want to BE physical with you. You know, like the kind of "attraction" that makes a man want just a casual fling... or a Friends With Benefits situation only.
No, I’m talking about the kind of Intellectual and Emotional Attraction that makes a man want to be around you... and want to have you in his life for the long-term.
I’m talking about the kind of attraction that makes him think about you all the time. The kind that makes his heart leap whenever he remembers the times he spent with you. It’s completely possible to do or say certain things that will turn on that magic switch inside a man’s mind that will make him sit up and take notice. That will make him emotionally attracted to you.
At the same time, there are ways to KILL any chance of that kind of attraction...and these are common mistakes that many women carelessly make (especially when they are really INTO a guy).
"Duh."
You OBVIOUSLY have real feelings for him - you're sleeping with him! And I'm willing to bet you had these feelings all along, but you just weren't completely up front about them. Your situation is possibly the WORST kind of uphill battle a woman can have with a man early on.
It's a BIG NO-NO. Actually, it's "THE" big NO-NO in the early dating stage...Using purely "physical attraction" to start a potential relationship. For most men, it’s easy to go from a meaningful and committed relationship to one that’s casual and purely physical.
But, it is almost impossible to go from the "friends-with-benefits" situation to a deep, fulfilling, intimate and lasting situation. I know this first hand, both from my own love life and from talking to lots of men and women I've known in my life.
It's a BIG NO-NO. Actually, it's "THE" big NO-NO in the early dating stage...Using purely "physical attraction" to start a potential relationship. For most men, it’s easy to go from a meaningful and committed relationship to one that’s casual and purely physical.
But, it is almost impossible to go from the "friends-with-benefits" situation to a deep, fulfilling, intimate and lasting situation. I know this first hand, both from my own love life and from talking to lots of men and women I've known in my life.
So... rarely do I give rules, but here's an absolute RULE when it comes to men -
- DON'T EVER try and start things with a man at a casual and purely physical level if you EVER want the option for something more meaningful or long-term. Men don't work this way, like it or not.
- And don't try to get a man BACK with physical attraction and sex either. It's a dead end street.
Here’s the worst part of this whole situation. You’re smart and you know better. I can tell. It doesn’t surprise me that you couldn’t see this coming. Somehow, when you’re in the thick of it, attraction and "love" can blind you.
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